How?

How does a Christian be in the world and not of it. How do I live a life of holiness, but still reach people. How could Christ be God in the flesh, perfect and Holy, without sin of any kind, but still be so accessible to people. I have such a desire for the holy life, to walk with God as Enoch, to live so close to him, to speak with him as Moses did. I find the Holy life pulls me more and more away from the world. I just read The Present Future by Reggie Mcneal. It was given to me by a friend. All of these books about the new church and changing the church all talk about engaging the culture. So how do I do it?

I don't want to watch the movies they watch. I don't want to listen to the music they do. I don't want to watch the t.v. shows the watch. I want to live a life of no compromise. Of living absolutely above reproach. I want no sin in my life. No question about anything. I want to live just like Jesus lived on the earth. I am suppossed to be an imitator of Christ. So how do I do it in this world?

To be quite honest, I don't know.